Wait. What?
That’s right; I said the healing power of NASCAR. Substitute
football, basketball, your favorite reality TV show, anything that can
get you all het up.
Dale Earnhardt ~ probably the most loved and most hated driver in NASCAR 1951-2001 |
Let me explain: I try
to be kind. I really do. I pull over to let drivers go ahead of me so neither of
us gets upset. I send loving thoughts to people I see walking down the street.
I smile at the person next to me in line at the store and I have gotten really
good at managing my snarkyness from coming out so as not to put my foot in my
mouth. But, I need an outlet. I need to be able to be snarky, to yell and say a
bad word or two. So I give myself a few hours a week to let go and be as inappropriate
as I want.
I can yell and swear about the 48, 14 or 18 being in the
lead.
I can be snarky about the announcers saying the same things over and over.
I can jump up and down when the 16, 24, 11 or 15 are up front and I can feel huge disappointment when something happens to take them out of the race.
I admit that I like the occasional wreck and a good rivalry is always fun to watch.
And then it is over and I have a much easier time getting back to being nice.
I can be snarky about the announcers saying the same things over and over.
I can jump up and down when the 16, 24, 11 or 15 are up front and I can feel huge disappointment when something happens to take them out of the race.
I admit that I like the occasional wreck and a good rivalry is always fun to watch.
And then it is over and I have a much easier time getting back to being nice.
So, in a way, I am healed by NASCAR and I think you should
find something that can heal you in the same way.
Who or what do you love to hate? What do you do to give
yourself a break from being on your good behavior?